A hint of love

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 A hint of love

What does love mean? happiness or sadness, everything or nothing, being loved or getting hurt


I search for love everywhere in every person, and still, I couldn't find the meaning of love or LOVE.

For sure, it is hard to find. I guess searching for love is a kind of suffering that can't be erased until the correct person treats us. It could be anytime, anywhere, anyone. Love has no limits, as well as any discrimination. We people always create limits and standardized discrimination according to our love prospects and our mindset and understanding of the concept of love. It is never the love but the person. who thinks sometimes love is absurd. As I told I am still searching for the meaning of love, but I haven't found the best one but in this process. I have been rewarded with a few things that made me search for love in the right places and in the right persons. 

  Love is like getting wet in the rain, spreading your hands wide, and letting yourselves enjoy it despite all the controlling and judging you fear you might receive. Love is like when you sleep peacefully in your comfy bed with your favourite pillow, cuddling it and not being stiff or running thoughts in your mind and worrying about things, and rather just sleep like a baby. Love is like visiting that one place where you always run to when things get bad or good, and feel nostalgic with memories hitting on like the soft wind passing by you. Love is like when you sit down to watch your favourite comfort movie after a long time to relax. Love is when you watch your childhood pictures and videos and wish to be young again and admire your younger self, whom you thought wasn't pretty or good. Love is when you go through your things and find your favorite doll or a core memory and feel like crying or laughing, thinking about it. Love is when you visit that one shop or place and you feel like you unlocked a core memory again, and you get all these goosebumps, and so badly want that to happen again. 

  These are all that love has defined you till now, but you will definitely get a better version of it when you meet the right person at the right time, and you will do all the things mentioned above with them. Yes, you will do all these things together and learn these kinds of things about them and accept their flaws and charms, and you will love them more than you ever did. Love is not right when the person tries to replace everything and change you into someone you thought you would never be. But love is right when the person admires all these things and wants to treasure them more than you wish to do, and reminds you of who you are and what you want in every stage of life, and supports you, cares about you. That's when you fall in love, and love is in its best version of itself. I wish that you fall in this kind of premium version of love and live happily together with all understanding, trust, care, drama, and little fights that a relationship needs by standard.

 We underestimate the meaning of love because we haven't truly fallen in love or experienced it better. In a nutshell, we haven't learnt our life lessons properly yet. Why do we often rush to be in a relationship with someone? Why are we desperate? When our right person is waiting for us or is currently learning the life lesson to reach us. Love doesn't wish to be rushed; it wishes to be a natural feeling. not something artificial. We need to understand the reality of love to be in love, and I hope we will understand all those things easily, avoiding those painful heartbreaks.

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